It’s the openness, the surrender, the connectedness, the love, the bliss, the soul shaking, the body moving, the emotional release that is the answer. All of it takes place during sensual, erotic or tantra massage session. Couples who make love often, are the couples who clear, upgrade and experience deeper embodiments of love - more often. resulting in a nourishing relationship with both each other and themselves. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

The resistance blocks you up. the resistance to joy, bliss and pleasure. Maybe it’s because of guilt and shame associated with such, or maybe it’s more so to do with the guilt and shame associated with love, with receiving more and more, with allowing. to flow. the resistance to the ease, to the healing, to the soul smearing. When couples stop making love, its not because they don’t love each other, instead it’s often a form of resistance to working through emotion, going deeper with love at its core. They decide that arguing or just being best friends is the answer but really they just need to make deep love more often. Can you feel it, when you’re fully embodied in your lovemaking? That goddess like energy that flows through her? How she softens into him and allows him to hold her heart. Can you see how he takes his responsibility to love her seriously. How it’s precious and simultaneously fierce to him. Can you feel the shift in dynamic and how that can open up and launch you and them into new spaces of being. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Soften. Soften. Enjoy. More.

Allow. Allow it to fill you up. Allow it to burst you open. Allow it to breathe through your body. Breathe. Allow emotions to come up. Maybe happiness, Maybe relief, Maybe remembering. Maybe discomfort, maybe resistance, anger, sadness. Allow it to show. Allow it to move through you. feel it. thank it. And Welcome the next emotion. This is a love making with life. A love making with yourself and a love making with your beloved. It’s a dance. Hold each other. Love each other. Be willing for each other. Receive from each other. Play with each other. Remember one another. Thats the whole point. Maybe you don’t need to settle. Maybe you just need to make more love more often.

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